What you really want????

Michelle Obama, Coretta Scott King????

Melyssa Ford, Karrine Stephens???

Tell me what do you really want? Or do you know?

I've been reading a lot of posts lately, men are coming out and saying they want them a woman like Michelle Obama, a down for her man woman, a smart woman, not bad on the eyes, but certainly no supermodel, has character, has fire, can stand on her own, is his "behind every good man woman", a lover, a wife, a mother, a friend, a constant supporter. I hear y'all cheering in the background, yeah, now that's a good catch. You say, you want you a Coretta, they just don't make them like that anymore, lovely, dedicated, supportive, will be with you for the rest of your life. A woman that all women look up to...you say you want a Coretta, a Michelle, BUT! and yeah that's a big azz BUT, you still chasing Melyssa and sometimes Karrine. You showcase these women, their assets (let me run them down to you), great bodies, beautiful faces, pretty skin, nice feet, pretty smile, big booty, big breast, ummm, ummm, probably (well that's no probably for Ms. Stephans) good in bed, will be the freak of all freaks, and keep you coming back for more. Now, you won't find Melyssa and Karrine everywhere you hangout...she most likely won't be at the local sports bar, nor hanging in the same mall you frequent, she won't be at your boys house, at the club, or VIP section your boys hooked you up with and so, you pick the next best thing....right, someone who looks like them. There is no shortage of sexy, beautiful women in this country, they are all over the place and you don't even have to go to a strip bar to see them naked.

There is also no shortage of beautiful, intelligent, witty, down to earth, loyal, spirit-filled women who got your back, "behind every good man", type of women...you just have to SEE them and learn to appreciate them.

So back to the question at hand...what do you really want?