Sunday, July 12, 2009

"1 out of every 3 black fatherless black males born in this decade will end up in prison..."


This was the quote that made me take notice. The quote that had me sitting up...because believe it or not, except it or not...if we don't do anything...this statistic will be our reality.

I slowly see it happening already...in just my community alone...in just my city and my state, with news report on the daily about young black males being locked up. Every time you drive down the street and you see the orange colored jumpsuits on work detail i can tell you 99% of them are black.

Fam, this hits too close to home as i watch my family having to deal with this as well. What can we do? I don't know the answer to that...but something must be done. I offer you this website and video to peruse and all of us need to view it. Please check out 40ursons.com and let me know what you think.

Check out a letter from the producers of this video:
Dear Friends & Family,

Over the past 18 months, we have shown our film For Our Sons to thousands of people across the country and abroad, from Atlanta, Bermuda, California and Chicago, to DC, Ghana (Africa), New Jersey and throughout the 5 Boroughs that make up New York City.

It is clear from the high praise that it has received and the inspiration that it has produced that this film needs to be seen by a larger audience.

Please go to the For Our Sons website and watch the 1st 13 minutes of the film. If you like it, order the Free DVD.

For Our Sons Website: foroursons.com or 4oursons.com


Help us spread the word! Show it to the people in your lives, particularly our young people. Also, share this email with your friends, families, colleagues and all networks throughout the country. Thank You!


Eric K. McKay

7 comments:

clnmike said...

I always wonder what the stats are on fatherless daughters.

Jackie E. said...

That really is such an awful statistic! I will definitely check out the video when I get a chance. My pastor preached this morning about men stepping up and filling in the gaps and being the fathers, husbands, brothers and mentors that they are meant to be. We can't rely on the "it takes a village" credo...it takes a father to raise his son and show him what it really means to be a man!

The F$%K it List said...

That is nuts! My son is 3 and in the last 6 months all I can think about is raising him in this country with these kinds of stats being reported.

After the Black cop was killed in NY I just want to take him somewhere he could escape this mess.

Rich Fitzgerald said...

I peeped that 13 minute clip. I think I'm going to grab a copy of that $6 FREE DVD. It looks to be more than worth the "shipping" charge.

CareyCarey said...

There's no quick fix to this problem and there's no place to run and no place to hide.

We are breeding a new crop of babies daddys and it's a good bet, they in turn will continue this theme.

What's the real issue and the real solutions?

Mizrepresent said...

clnmike - me too! I'm gonna do some research on that, but my gut tells me that fatherless daughters raise fatherless sons so the circle continues.

Jackie E - i agree with you, it takes a father to raise his son, but there are so many that are not that we most definitely need a community involvement.

The F_Uitlis - i hear you...i have been worried for many years, and now that it is at crisis stage i have reached to so many organizations about this problem. There are a few working against it...mainly in your area but not nationwide where it needs to be. I believe you are in a good place sister...you have husband and a father who loves and wants to instruct his son...there are so many out here without it.

Rich - i was so compelled after seeing that first 13 minutes that i bought the video too and i am willing to share it or donate it to whomever will benefit.

CareyCArey - i agree wholeheartedly...the fix is no easy solution but then again it is...it is taking our caring concern and loving back to the streets. This is the way you and i both grew up. Yes, we had parents, but back when i grew up every one on the block, every teacher, every dayum adult was to be respected and adhered to. We got to get back to the basics first to make a change.

dejanae said...

Sigh
not likin the sound of that at all