I'm no Cougar...but i must have Cougar senses...just saying
I can't help it...all the men i meet or relatively, all the men i meet who are really interested in me are always 10+ years younger than me.
I have learned not to fight it so much...there is obviously something here, and so i will work with it.
I'm not about to have children again...i have two wonderful children that i adore an i am so glad that they are growing into adulthood.
So, I'm not interested in having anymore.
What is this interest in me...and me in them...i can't know for sure...but i think i love their youthful energy...i love their energy and longing to make a change, take a stance...they have that energy that is contagious.
What they love about me...i think it is my willingness to be understanding and non-prejedice about anything...my stableness, my knowing who i am and where i want to go...my drive and spirit...
It is a very exciting period for me...an i am loving it...but just so you know...I'm no Cougar but i have Cougar senses, emotions, passion an a whole lotta love.
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!
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17 comments:
LOL. I always joke with my friend that we're "k"ougars in training. We almost had a fender bender when both of us spotted a good looking younger guy one day...that was funny.
Someone made a good point a while ago...women who attract/are fond of younger men have been nicknamed after a predator, while men are sugardaddies, etc. Such a double standard, but who really cares.
Go 'head, girl!
You go girl... Go get yourself some of that young stuff, hit it hard too!
Hell, bring home a couple at a time, double your pleasure, if you know what I mean. *wink*
Eat'um up girl!
You forgot to add that you're fine as all get out, but yes, the things you mentioned mos def give you cougar characteristics. Trust me, this Cougar Hunter knows one when he sees one *wink*
They say that likes attract so the things you like about these younger men.. their energy, their longing, their stance... you must possess the same. I am sure you do. ;-)
You better leave them youngins for me!
:-)
I am just floating past to see what's good...
Curvygurl - thanks luv! And i hear you about how they describe women as Cougars...but it really doesn't bother me...i'm not hunting, just gathering, lol!
Solomon - yo azz, lmao! No, honey i don't need two, not at all...one is good enuf for me!
Chris - Sweetheart, i didn't know you were a Cougar Hunter, lmao okay and thanks for the compliments...they really mean so much to me!
MsKnowitall - you might be right lady...and i am liking it!
Jenellybean - lmao...gurl, there are plenty of them for both of us...i'm a lover not a fighter!
Kofi Bofah - so delighted you dropped by, how r u?
All of the women my age that I work with are dating younger guys..
Not ten years younger, but at least five or four years younger.
Guess all the guys their age are taken.
I had to comment on this post because I was one of those young men that fell hard for a woman that was eleven years my elder a few years back. She was one of the most exciting and sexy women that I've ever had the pleasure of knowing. She was everything I wanted in a woman and the fact that she was eleven years older than me at the time didn't bother me in the least... as Smokey said "the older the berry, the sweeter the juice"...lol. We dated for about seven months and had big plans until I had to relocate. I'll never forget what she brought to my life and how special she made me feel.
With younger men coming after you, just consider it a compliment because contrary to what most think, young men adore and appreciate older women more than women our own age.
Hey Ms Miz
It sounds like I could've written this post, lol!!! It is definitely my experience that men anywhere from 5 to 15 years younger than me seem to be the most interested in me. I don't know what it is but I think I have some Cougar senses too:-)
how about a Panther? or a Jaguar?? You are hot, and you're comfortable in your skin, I think the confidence is what gets them. Nothing wrong with dating someone who is younger or older, it's all about the chemistry and communication.
1- You look good.
2- Young men who go after older women crave maturity and self confidence in a woman that they dont have in women their age.
3- Who says they want kids or that they dont already have some?
4- A young buc can add spice to your life.
Oh and whats there to do in the mean time?
Keith - it seems to be the trend...hey i'm not hating though, lol!
News Revolver- thanks for sharing that story...it just reiterates what i have been thinking...looking and hoping to experience the same! Hey and welcome!
Jackie E - lol, you may have gurl (cougar senses)...don't fight it!
Lady Shay - thank you girl...y'all gonna give me the bighead...i'm gonna enjoy! Believe that!
Clnmike - okay, great list, i'm convinced. And you are right...i've got nothing else to do in the meantime, might as well enjoy it!
When I was younger, I dated older women - a handful of them if I remember correctly. Most times it was sexual, on both our parts, but I did like the fact that they knew exactly what they wanted. No games. They also were positive reinforcements to the goals you were trying to pursue as opposed to a young chick trying to get a trip to the mall out of you.
I have never had Cougar-tendencies but I certainly can't begrudge the sistas who like their dates wearing Pull Ups and holding a bottle of milk and a box of animal crackers!! *LOL*
Just joking, just joking...
I like men who are candidates for the nursing home...over 50 years old... so I don't know if there is a term for women like me... *LOL*
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